Five Psychological Tricks To Attract Other People

True attraction is created in the mind. It intrigues us, excites us and fills us with a curiosity that goes far beyond the physical aspects of our being, such as our face, body and eyes. So what can you do to attract other people?

There is a cultural bias in which we believe that everything that is beautiful is also good and that someone who is very attractive must therefore also have great qualities.  However, as we get older and gain more experience, we also realize that this is not always true.

Moreover, we realize that in reality it is much more intense to be able to experience that other form of attraction where the pleasures, values ​​and projects of two minds are in harmony with each other.

In this article, however, we want to stick to the area that goes beyond mere ‘attraction’. You can do things yourself to become more attractive by using a range of interesting strategies that we are all capable of developing.

Here are five psychological tricks that can help you achieve this.

5 tricks to attract other people

1. True attractiveness is hidden in self-confidence. Be authentic!

People who are confident and have sufficient self-confidence are able to enchant and attract others. However, this certainty and confidence should never turn into pride and narcissism.

We speak of genuine self-confidence when a person knows himself and his own strengths. At the same time, however, he must also be aware of his own limitations at all times. When he can recognize his own limitations, he also has the opportunity to improve them.

However, self-confidence is also nurtured and maintained with other fundamental and essential dimensions.

Some of these dimensions are:

• self-assurance.
• A positive self-image.
• A certain kind of humility that allows us to open up more to others and build closer bonds with them.

The real magic is in the balance between these dimensions.

2. Create your own signature

In a world where almost everyone is the same, being different is very attractive. Sometimes, however, we get the idea that being different causes us to become disconnected from others, to be criticized and even to separate ourselves from the rest of society.

Having a crooked nose or being overweight, for example, can feel like real obstacles to gaining the confidence to attract others. The same goes for having an asymmetrical face or being too tall or too short.

However, all these nuances should be accompanied by self-confidence. Show the world how unique you are, that you have your own brand and that you are happy with who you are. So let’s learn to make use of all our idiosyncrasies.

3. The power of non-verbal communication

Being attractive in the eyes of others starts with a look and the knowledge of how to bond with others. However, you also have to learn to take your attitude into account.

Sitting and standing with your legs and arms crossed creates a wall that prevents you from generating self-confidence.

Be sure to develop an open attitude that shows others that you are comfortable and calm.

• Use your hands to convey things

• Your smile to enchant others
• Your head to nod and show interest.
• And your body for self-confidence to radiate closeness.

4. Empathetic Communication

Someone who knows how to get closer to others, who is able to listen and build an emotional and cognitive empathic connection, gradually becomes more attractive.

Some people, on the other hand, have developed a habit of always talking only about themselves. With the idea of ​​”selling” himself to others just for show. They glorify their so-called virtues, abilities and infamous skills. What they really cause, however, is discomfort and aloofness.

It is therefore important to learn how to build a close relationship with others. There are people who can do this by being truly authentic, genuinely interested in the person in front of them, and always humble themselves. This makes these people incredibly attractive.

5. Something unusual

As we mentioned earlier, if you want to fit in at all costs and have the same qualities as other people, you will only merge into an ocean of generality without ever standing out.

Do you want to attract other people, be different and make sure everyone’s eyes are on you when you’re in a room full of similar people? Then try to emphasize a single aspect that defines you.

You can be that person who likes the ‘pin-up style’, has that original haircut or who wears classic shoes. Or you can be that man with that elegant mustache, who wears a tie or who always wears casual clothes.

Your attempt to be original should match your appearance and way of being. Never try to convey to others anything that does not fit your essence or anything that removes yourself from your true identity.

Beauty is work in progress

In general, these are dimensions that can and should be learned. Most of them come from self-knowledge. That is, only when we really know ourselves will we be able to understand what we need to change about ourselves.

This will also make us aware of our powers. In addition, it will also allow us to find out where that magic that allows us to enchant others and make others see us is hidden.

Finally, it is important not to forget the following: once you have managed to attract someone, you have to maintain that attraction.

When you rely on yourself at all times, you will undoubtedly be able to build long-lasting and fruitful relationships with friends, romantic partners and colleagues.

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